Sis, Be a “Choosey Lover.”
If you are a single Black woman looking for love and/or marriage, then chances are you have come across some gloomy statistics about how...
Sis, Asking for what you want does not make you thirsty.
There are so many times in my discussions with women where I hear reservations around asking certain questions during the early dating...
Sis, Your life matters.
A few weeks ago, I started this blog for Black women focused on love and relationships. I hoped to create something focused on loving and...
Sis, Love is vulnerable.
Meeting and dating my husband was timely. When we met, I had been in therapy for a while and had done a bunch of unpacking and learning...
Sis, Don’t hurt your back.
Let's continue the discussion on baggage. Erykah Badu wastes no time with the opening line of “Bag Lady.” She begins with the following...
Sis, What's in your bag?
In the song “Bag Lady,” Erykah Badu schooled us on the dangers of emotional baggage. “One day all them bags gone get in your way,” sang...
Sis: A Collection of Open Love Letters to Black Women Looking for Love
When I was 22, I suddenly found myself single with absolutely no clue about adult dating. I was less than one year into my graduate...
